Quote Originally Posted by DK528 View Post
Thanks everyone. I have a lot of work to get done this afternoon but will respond to your points tonight.

He and I have had an upsetting text message convo about this today already following up on our discussions last night.

I am trying my best to understand. Especially when he writes things like:

"I don't think I have anything that's so important to me that I would let it become something between us. I guess I don't understand why the gambling is so important to you."

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What I see is that he is taking the problem that he has with gambling, and making it sound like you have a problem. If it's not so damn important to him, why is he making such a big deal out of it? His issue with it is what is coming between you.

That sounded harsh I think, but I fear this is more about control than about gambling. I think that you need to get to the root of things, and I don't think it's gambling.